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Pause when a message pressures you

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One practical lesson · about 7 minutes

Pause when a message pressures you

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What is it?

Urgency, an impersonated organization, and demands for unusual payment can signal a scam. The FTC explains these warning signs in the linked guide.

Why would I need this?

Practice a pause before reacting to a frightening or exciting claim.

Show me.

  1. Read the message without following its instructions.
  2. Name the pressure: a threat, deadline, prize, or demand for money.
  3. Check the claim through a known contact method you find separately.
  4. Talk it through with someone you trust before responding.

Try it.

Say what you would do with this invented message: “Your service ends in ten minutes unless you send gift-card numbers.”

Watch out for this.

A familiar logo or caller name does not establish who sent the message.

Explain this another way

Focus on one small task: pause when a message pressures you. You can practice aloud, on paper, or with someone you trust.

Show me an example

HAB practice example: Alex puts the phone down, uses a saved official contact, and asks whether there is really a problem.

What does that word mean?Open the full glossary

You did it.

You have practiced a useful next step. Repeat it if you want, or continue at your own pace.

Related lessons

Check a suspicious link without opening it
Recognize a job offer that asks for money

Put this lesson into practice

Open the related HAB helper →My HAB / saved work

Take the next step

FTC: How to avoid a scam →

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Lesson version 1 · editorial review 2026-09-12. General education. Individual requirements can differ.

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