What is it?
A clear request names a specific action rather than expecting the other person to guess.
Why would I need this?
Practice discussing a manageable issue instead of every disagreement at once.
Show me.
- Choose one issue.
- Describe what happened without guessing the other person’s intention.
- Say what you are asking for now.
- Let them answer and clarify what each of you agreed to.
Try it.
Practice asking a housemate for a quieter hour during an online class.
Watch out for this.
You can request a change, but you cannot assume the other person has agreed.
Explain this another way
Focus on one small task: make one clear request. You can practice aloud, on paper, or with someone you trust.
Show me an example
HAB practice example: Alex says: “My class is from six to seven. Could we keep the television lower during that hour?”
What does that word mean?
Open the full glossaryYou did it.
You have practiced a useful next step. Repeat it if you want, or continue at your own pace.